i hated:
- the highway i-65 with all those crazy trucks and the pouring rain: most dangerous highway, don’t take it! je plaisante pas! je vais y crever un jour!
- the security gate with its 2-mile long line (at 6am!). take off your belt, your shoes, your coat, your wallet, … you glasses, your pants, your shirt…
- having forgotten both the address of the hotel where i was staying and the book i had bought just for that trip… haha, typical of me! on pourrait meme se demander si j’ai pas oublie ma tete… j’avais pas l’air conne en arrivant et en essayant d’expliquer la situation au taxi…
- having to wear high heels that hurt my legs after 30 minutes for 21 hours! … and five days in a row! ma mere m’a toujours dit: il faut souffrir pour etre belle!
- $70 for a taxi ride between john wayne airport and the hotel… $60 on the way back, maybe it’ll be only $50 next time 
- the oversized convention center with so many people and so many boring presentations/leader meetings/training workshops to go to. the only presentation i was able to go to because i WANTED to was on saturday afternoon! et en plus cette presentation etait super nulle!
- the 3-hour time difference between california and indiana, so when it was time for dinner with the president of this or that it was midnight for me and i was way too tired…
- ca, ca me fait pas rigoler: the dog that woke me up at 5am local time–les chiens ont quelque chose contre moi, c’est sur!!
- the prospect of having lunch on thursday with the minister of education of hungary and a few other people like that… fear of having nothing to say (ah, la hongrie vient de rentrer dans l’union europeenne? vachement interessant!), of sounding stupid and unimportant, much anxiety!
- leaving the house at 7am and coming back at 10pm every day… walking in this huge convention center all day and between hotels too, and having to do the same again the next day…
- my body is revolting against the accumulated exhaustion: my legs and back and feet and shoulders and even wrists are killing me! and a night of sleep isn’t even enough to make me feel rested again. i’ll need a few weeks to recover!
- $30 for lunch, $40 for dinner, $30 for lunch, $30 for dinner, $50 for lunch… etc… hurting… le prix de la gloire! … yeah, whatever!
- the summer time change (but indiana doesn’t change and europe changed a couple of weeks ago, how confusing!): i didn’t know about it (and neither did the taxi driver!) and almost missed my plane! on sunday, i was on four different times (pacific, daylight saving, mountain, and central)!
- the long trip back home, exactly 13 hours door to door! bon allez d’accord, j’arrete de me plaindre. c’est vrai, c’etait tuant cette conference, mais il y avait plein de bon moments et de choses super chouettes!
i loved:
- the fact that i was in california. when i was 17 i came to the us for the first time and stayed for a few months in california… spent a few weeks here for an arts workshop too about 5 years ago… many trips around california with cath and other people… spent christmas here with guillermo 3 years ago (tiens, il me manque celui-la)… lots of good memories!
- names like magnolia road, cypress street, fountain valley… it sounds so romantic.
- the cute bed and breakfast place where was staying, with its porcelaine tea cups, its game of trivial pursuit, the computer, my private little bathroom, other guests from all over the world, the odd but very nice owner, the yellow rubber duck in my bathtub, the over-stuffed room with the king-sized bed and the 8 pillows on which i sleep like a baby, not enough, but at least it was comfortable! eh oui, on se la coule douce dans un petit hotel called « deluxe » room in the directory of B&B’s…
- the ocean and the weather (not that i see much of it, since i am locked all day in an ugly convention center), but it’s nice, sunny, green, with amazing flowers everywhere and even hummingbirds already, and warm enough to wear short-sleeved shirts and to sleep on top of the blanket. j’aaaaime la californie!!!
- seeing old friends from byu and purdue and other places too, old teachers, old students, old colleagues…
- talking with A. that i don’t like much but am learning to appreciate (en fait, il me fait encore vraiment chier mais je fais des efforts)… don’t know if he likes me and values my input or is just bored so talks to me… and offers me coffees… il doit vraiment s’ennuyer!
- talking with G. whom i really like more every time i see him, who is so encouraging and funny and interesting, and who was the one who reviewed a manuscript for tesol quarterly and advised the writer to read my thesis. je l’adore ce type, c’est des gens comme lui qui me donnent le courage de continuer dans cette voie. him saying that he was « concerned » about me because i was so serious this year (ben c’est l’age i guess)…
- lunch with the minister of international relations of hungary or something and a few other important people like that (i have nice friends!)… laughs… good times… funny gossip… serious talking… i am serious, i am listened to, my ideas are valued, my comments do make a difference… bon d’accord, il n’y avait pas de raison de paniquer… c’etait chouette et pas pompeux ou chiant du tout, le type est vraiment interessant et en plus il parle francais! nice!
- the big presentation: it went so well… and the « fame » and recognition all day afterwards… people congratulating me… i felt so comfortable at that thing, i am a natural born public speaker! (la vanite va me tuer un jour, je le sens… mon ego gonfle…) 70-80 people attended that presentation 
- dr T. introducing me: phd student, webmanager, blah blah AND looking for a rich handsome and intelligent man to date! haha, coming from him, the most serious person i know on this planet, it made me laugh so hard!! i love to talk to him!
- being asked by tons of people, after the presentation, if i was REALLY a nonnative speaker of english… B. telling me that i was the first foreigner to fool him into believing i was a native speaker of english! (ego mon bel ego, dis-moi…) very interesting person too, this B., nice conversations!
- discussing with the iep people about becoming their web-manager and proposal reader… and maybe more… making contacts, networking, getting go know new people that will be interesting and useful for my research (ca enfle, ca enfle…)
- dinner with both the deans of byu’s and byu hawai’i’s linguistics departments, getting new business cards, being asked to send an article to their journal as well as a copy of my thesis… (attention, ca va exploser…) (a deflated ego is not good, but what about an exploded ego?)
- going to the all caucus’ leaders meeting… interesting… kinda scary… but i like this kinda stuff so next year i’ll definitely campaign to be nominated as vice-chair of our caucus. i hope you’ll vote for me and my ego 
- going to wasabi for lunch/dinner and eating some really good sushi and other stuff… wish i could stay here longer just for that restaurant! not even expensive. i’d say better quality and more food for the same price as in indiana! i LOOOOOOOOVE sushi!!!
- the last day, FINALLY! I SURVIVED!!! home sweet home!!! maison sucree maison, hehe… i LOVE my bed!! oui et c’est pas tout ca les enfants, mais je vais me pieuter parce que j’ai assez dit de conneries pour ce soir! a bientot
et joyeux anniversaire a ma maman preferee, adoree, bien-aimee!!! biz biz!